Chabwino, poyang'ana zomwe zikuchitika muvidiyoyi, ndikhoza kunena kuti, atsikanawo ankafuna kugonana kotereku, komanso, adagwidwa ndi mawu okweza, kumverera kunali kuti adagwidwa, osati iye adawawombera. Nthawi zambiri kanema wakhala chimodzimodzi, ine ndikuganiza kuti ofanana ndi kofunika kuwombera nthawi zambiri, ndipo ine maliseche kuti zolaula zonsezi, monga m'pofunika, chisoni ine pamenepo pambali pawo sanali.
Ndimeze bwanji, ndikudabwa kuti atha kulowamo. Koma ndikuganiza kuti mwamunayo ali ndi mwayi, ndi katswiri. Si namzeze, ndi phompho. Mtsikana aliyense amachitira nsanje pakamwa ngati choncho.