Zinali zolimbikitsa kuona ubale wabwino pakati pa mayi wopeza ndi mwana wopeza. Nthawi zambiri awiriwa samamenyana konse. Mayi wopeza wa mtsikanayu analowa m’malo mwa mayi ake, choncho anaganiza zomuphunzitsa za kugonana. Anayamba ndi zida zosavuta, ndipo pamapeto pake adachita nawo gmj.
Ndi ubale wosangalatsa bwanji womwe m'bale ndi mlongoyo ali nawo, osachita manyazi kapena chilichonse, kutengera zomwe adachita motsatira. Koma zimene amayi awo anachita zinali zoseketsa.